Portrait of Seb Brouwer

Hello, I'm Sebastiaan (Seb).

I build solutions.

I partner with organisations to improve their communication competence and leverage their collective intelligence to achieve set objectives.

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What I get called in for

Six situations I get called into. One of them is probably yours.

AI is taking over work my team used to be asked for

Everybody is talking about AI and how it disrupts their organisation and their work. Work you used to be asked for is now being asked of a machine, and the honest question is not how to stop it but how to survive it and actually use it.

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Decisions take too long, or come back again

Many people have difficulties making decisions with confidence. Decisions get put off. Decisions already made are questioned again. Direction flip-flops, because nobody has the confidence to choose one and take a stand. It frustrates everyone and keeps the organisation in a holding pattern.

  • Facilitation
  • Journeys

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People have stopped pulling in the same direction

There is no established feedback culture on the things that matter. People aren't sure how to raise them, don't want to make waves, or keep their honest opinion to themselves for fear of being criticised, ridiculed or criticised back. Important information stalls. Bad practices remain. “I raised things that matter to me a few times and got ridiculed, snubbed or simply not heard. So I disengage. I'm not sure what's expected of me, or what I can expect from others. I'm afraid to make mistakes, and I don't know where the company is going.”

  • Training
  • Facilitation
  • Journeys

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We need new thinking and keep producing the same ideas

The ideas that come up are the ones that always come up. What is missing is not creativity but a process that lets the good ones survive contact with the room.

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Two parts of the business are at odds

Differences of opinion are put down instead of encouraged. Personality clashes aren't resolved. There is no way to handle grievances, disagreements or conflicts, so they keep simmering under the carpet.

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My new leaders don’t have their feet under the table yet

They are not feeling confident in the role yet. They know what to do and have not yet had to do it in the moment where it matters, in front of people who are watching.

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Examples of my work

AI is taking the specialists’ work. What now?35 researchers · three days · several survivable futures

Their whole craft was being asked of a machine instead of them. They did not want to be told what to do — they said so. They wanted credible answers to a question nobody had answered: what is research still worth in the era of AI?

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The mandate

A research team of about 35 specialists whose core work was being taken over by AI. Work they used to be asked for was now being asked of a machine. They did not want solutions — they said so. They wanted scenarios: several credible answers to how research still brings value in the era of AI.

What we designed

Three days, off-site. The whole summit asked two questions: how does AI impact our industry and our job, and how do we survive that and actually use it. They pointed at surviving. An investigation with one rule — at least three reputable sources, and an AI answer is not a source. A newspaper, where every team had to agree a single front page. And a sort into three piles: what we can do ourselves, what needs someone above us, and what we simply have to live with. Throughout: running towards, not running away from.

The outcome — against the mandate

The mandate was fulfilled. Several scenarios, each with its own indicators — how we would know it is working, and how we would know it is not.

The engagement

Our second in two years. The first was three days with 35 of their consultants, on working with multiple stakeholders. They came back when the ground moved.

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They needed new ideas and kept producing the old ones100 people · eight nationalities · six or seven worth a stake

A hundred people in a room is usually where ideas go to die — the loud ones win and the rest nod. They left with six or seven they were willing to put their name against.

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The mandate

A group frantically looking for new ideas to diversify. Not a workshop about creativity — they needed ideas they could actually put a stake in.

What we designed

Three days, close to 100 people in one location, from at least eight nationalities. I designed the whole workflow: how ideas were generated, how they were tested against each other, and how a room that size still reaches agreement.

The outcome — against the mandate

They came out with six or seven viable ideas — tested, or at least promising, and each with someone willing to take a stake in it.

The engagement

Our second of three. The first was a leadership summit with the same group.

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The conversations leaders avoid, taught to 300 of themFour programmes · six countries · three years · still fully booked

Not a course. A curriculum every new leader goes through: feedback that lands, the difficult conversation, the performance conversation, the productive one. Three years on, the courses are still full.

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The mandate

An international company that wanted its leaders to handle the conversations they were avoiding — not one course, but a whole communication curriculum.

What we designed

Four consecutive programmes: giving and receiving feedback, difficult conversations, performance conversations, and productive conversations. One day grew to two when feedback turned out to need the room. Delivered across six countries.

The outcome — against the mandate

More than 300 leaders have been through it, and after three years the courses are still fully booked.

The engagement

Running continuously for three years. Mostly department leads and team leads.

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Growing fast, with no idea where they were goingTwo days · the entire company · a five-year vision, reached in four

A company can grow quickly and still have no shared picture of what it is for. We built one with everybody in the room rather than handing one down. They reached it a year early.

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The mandate

A fast-growing company with no shared picture of where it was going. They wanted a vision the whole company could stand behind, not a slide from the board.

What we designed

A two-day vision day with the entire company, then the work underneath it: what we want to achieve, what it will take, and what kind of collaboration it needs. I was the designer and the facilitator, and partly the one who implemented it, together with the CEO.

The outcome — against the mandate

The vision was set for five years, and reached a year early. The targets we set were achieved, and it paved the way for two further international expansions.

The engagement

Four years, in-house. The third fast-growing company I have taken through this.

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New lead, big changes, and nobody knew who owned whatA division day · concrete plans · clear swimming lanes

A team can agree on the goal and still collide every week, because the handovers were never drawn. They left knowing who owns what, and where one person’s work stops.

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The mandate

A department with a new lead and big changes behind it. The question in the room was the simplest and hardest one: what do we do now?

What we designed

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The outcome — against the mandate

They came out with very concrete plans, and clear swimming lanes — who owns what, and where one person's work stops and the next begins.

The engagement

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Two marketing functions pulling against each otherCompeting agendas · no coordination

Design marketing and product marketing, each with its own agenda and no coordination between them. They came out with very clear directions.

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The mandate

Two marketing functions at odds — design marketing and product marketing — with competing agendas and no coordination between them.

What we designed

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The outcome — against the mandate

They came out with very clear directions: what each function owns, and how the two work together rather than past each other.

The engagement

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Everything is also available online, in my own virtual world.

Training

Proven curriculum

Facilitation

Proven curriculum

Journeys

Tailor made

Interim

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…He listens carefully, names what others avoid, and turns difficult conversations into productive ones.
Prof. Dr Chaska Armbruster
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Healthy organisations deliver on their promise.

They are adaptable and have what I call good circulation: messages are sent, and they arrive as intended. Conflicts get resolved. Tensions get leveraged into innovative solutions. That’s the difference.

What that looks like in practice:

  • Decisions get made in the room, not in the corridor afterwards. Fewer of them come back. Meetings get fewer and shorter.
  • Bad news travels early: a risk gets raised in week two, not week ten. Fewer surprises.
  • Escalations drop: issues get settled where they arise, instead of landing on your desk.
  • Underperformance gets addressed within weeks, not at the annual review. Resignations stop coming out of the blue.
  • Between teams, handovers get cleaner: less rework, fewer cc battles.
  • Quieter people speak up, ideas come from the floor, and leaders get time back from firefighting.
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What would happen in your organisation if, overnight, your people were skilled communicators?

If they could give feedback that lands, navigate difficult conversations, resolve tension, and honestly explore the other person’s viewpoint?

It comes down to two moments: when two parties meet, and when there is a reaction — a shutdown, flaring emotions or freezing — and how well that is navigated. That is what I train: navigating the conversation between two parties, one-to-one, in teams, across the organisation. My method is SHIFT: five steps to a productive conversation.

You don’t learn to fly from a textbook, nor to swim at the side of the pool.

You learn to keep your agency and to navigate, even under pushback.

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You can't see the picture you're in.

You can’t see the dynamic you’re part of. That isn’t a question of capability, experience or education. It’s a question of perspective.

In facilitation, I hold the room, observe the process, elicit responses and differing perspectives, challenge assumptions, and move the process on when it stalls or becomes unproductive. I see where the dynamic is helping or hindering progress towards agreed objectives. It is a WORK-shop, not a TALK-shop.

What facilitation can do for you
  • Dissolving tensions: two departments blame each other for missed deadlines. Both views go on the wall, the real bottleneck becomes visible, and they agree on who changes what.
  • Gaining clarity on a direction: a leadership team with five “top priorities” leaves the day with one that everyone can explain in a sentence.
  • Deciding a direction: a board that has circled the same choice for months hears every position once, makes the call in the room, and it holds.
  • Developing a vision: a fast-growing company works out what it wants to be in five years, with the people who will have to live it.
  • Building a strategy: the vision becomes three or four choices: what we do, what we stop, and who owns what.
  • Encouraging innovation: ideas that normally die in the corridor get a fair hearing, first alone, then in pairs, then as a group, until the strongest are on the table.
  • Building learning loops: after a project, the team looks at what actually happened, without blame, and decides what it will do differently next time.
  • Creating a climate for collaborative development: a team learns to disagree in the open, so the next hard conversation doesn’t need an outside facilitator.
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Interim

Sometimes it is not a training that is needed. Something has to be built — and then built into the company, so it keeps running once I leave.

I have built training departments, recruitment departments, and onboarding programmes. Not with me: the structure I built runs over time.

What building it actually means

A training department takes about a year. It is not just the structure — it is having your own people deliver the training themselves. If we go at it intensively, perhaps half a year. Recruitment is the same: not the structure alone, but demonstrating how it is done. How do you interview? How do you strategise an interview? How do you actually engage with the person in front of you?

Why onboarding is worth the months it takes

An onboarding programme runs at least three to six months. One of the biggest costs a company carries is hiring and rehiring people — the agency fee, the work not getting done, the months of low performance. Much of that traces straight back to the quality of the recruitment, and to the quality of the onboarding.

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About me

18 countries. 35 years in business, 20+ of them as a facilitator, trainer and troubleshooter. Across booms, crashes, hyper-growth and multinational transitions.

The work I do: coming in during a growth spurt, a transition or a storming phase — helping leaders and teams navigate the turmoil and transfer the communication skills they need to master current and future challenges. Once the necessary conversations are handled, the rest follows: clarity, structure, plan. My work is the pivot point, not the long stay.

What I’ve learned in all of it: communication is both the bottleneck and the alchemical agent of an organisation.

If this resonates with you — and the conventional fixes haven’t closed it — let’s talk. It might help.

What I learned

It comes from my life and my work as an employee, leader and entrepreneur, from thousands of hours observing consultants in client conversations, and from hundreds of leadership and board meetings.

Communication can be the choke point that reduces productivity, turns motivation into disengagement, and turns productivity into idleness or toxicity, draining the aspiration, vision, energy and enthusiasm out of an organisation. Or it becomes the alchemical agent that nourishes it: it turns tension into innovation and conflict into learning, fosters collaboration and creates forward momentum.

Where does that happen? At two moments. The first is when two parties meet to talk, in a one-to-one, a team or a board meeting. The second is the moment of tension and disagreement: an objection, a shutdown, an emotional reaction. In short, when triggers fire. What remains is fight, flight or, worse, freeze: the conversation peters out, emotions flare up, or people shut down. In a group this is amplified, and people play power ping-pong or jockey for position instead of exploring each other’s viewpoints.

We have all been there. Knowing what to do is rarely the problem. Doing it in the moment where it matters is. What it takes is the competence to handle these moments: to stay present, and the skill to navigate them. That is what my training builds. As a facilitator, I hold the room and create an environment that leads to productive outcomes.

Experience in brief
  • 150+ group gatherings (teams and departments), from 6 to 250 people.
  • 1,200+ training days, over 2,000 sessions.
  • 2,000+ hours of coaching and sparring.
  • Building learning capability and training internal trainers, in three organisations.
  • Building internal recruitment departments and developing successors, in three organisations.
  • Building onboarding programmes for new hires, newly hired executives and promoted leaders.

Project list on request.

Where and in what

Specialisations

  • Communications training
  • Facilitation
  • Team development
  • Client conversations
  • Learning & development
  • Internal recruitment
  • Transition and stabilisation in turbulent times
  • Succession (family businesses)

Specific strengths

  • Building learning capability and developing internal trainers
  • Facilitating groups in turmoil
  • Developing confident leaders

Industries

  • Staffing and recruitment
  • Finance and insurance
  • Automotive
  • IT
  • Retail
  • Hotels
  • Recreation (diving and sailing)

Countries

  • Germany
  • Netherlands
  • Cyprus
  • UK
  • Estonia
  • Ireland
  • Dominican Republic
  • Mexico
  • Czech Republic
  • Serbia
  • US
  • Russia
  • South Korea
  • Spain
  • Poland
  • Italy
  • Bulgaria
  • Belgium
Seb Brouwer presenting to a group

What I actually do

Where I really shine is to come in, train your people, repair the situation — whatever it was — and leave. Without doing the work myself, and without consulting.

  • Training departments
  • Recruitment departments
  • Onboarding programmes
  • Team development
  • Leadership development

I need to be there for a while, or on a regular basis. Then I move.

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My role: the 18th camel

An old camel herder died and left his sons 17 camels, with the wish to split them amongst the brothers: half for the eldest, a third for the second, and a ninth for the youngest.

No matter how hard they tried, they could not come up with a solution to divide them according to their father’s wishes. They wanted to honour his wishes, and as the days went by, the brothers argued and stopped speaking to each other, with no resolution.

One evening, a mullah came riding by. He listened to all three, climbed off his camel, and led it among the others. “Now you have 18,” he said. “Try again.”

The eldest took half, 9. The second took a third, 6. The youngest took a ninth, 2. Finally, they managed to divide the camels.

One camel was left. The mullah climbed back on it and rode off.

A facilitator is the eighteenth camel: needed for the solution, never part of it.

Why we practise: the regulator

As a dive instructor I could explain a hundred times why breathing through a regulator is easier than through a snorkel. Nobody believed me until their head was under water.

That is why we practise.

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Last updated: 19 September 2026